that's not classy

i will start off this post by acknowledging the fact that my grandma reads my blog (or my pathetic excuse for one, anyway). hello gwam, you sexy thing, you.

so my genius friends and i decided to have a farewell party last weekend to say goodbye to each other before we are all off to start our first semesters at college. someone suggested having it be a luau theme so that's what we went with, leis and grass skirts and all. the party didn't really accomplish much good for me... yes, i was happy that all of my friends were there, but i was in such a bad mood because of everyone else throughout. my friend molly pulled the best stunt, though. she left with her boyfriend to go pick up my friend from christine, who had just come home from geneseo that day and needed a ride. christine came into the backyard but molly and her boyfriend never did.... another friend of mine wanted to get a sweatshirt from her car but had parked behind molly's car and so when they went out they saw molly and her boyfriend hooking up. and even after that, she never came back to the party. she called me around 8 to tell me devin's mom wanted him home, which everyone agreed was bullshit since i put the call on speakerphone.

the downlow on the boy is that molly has known him as an acquaintance through working at whole foods, but they just started hooking up three weeks ago. they started fucking around the same time and have only been dating a week from yesterday. i get that she likes him a lot but the reality is that the first time she gets really drunk or by the time he gets bored waiting around from her, one of them is going to stray to someone else and whatever amazing thing she thinks she has is going to be completely diminished. if they're fucking so early on, i think he's only using her for sex. but if she'd rather spend her time with him than saying goodbye to people she has known pretty much all her life, then she is more than welcome to be my guest.

the rest of the party was pretty annoying to me too. don't get me wrong, i love most of my friends to death and some even a little more than that. no one was really appreciative of the fact that we spent good money on the decorations, especially the leis (which people left all over the backyard and in my basement). the boys brought guitar hero and wanted to play that, and i thought that was kind of stupid because it's only two players. just askldjasd it was not really that much of an enjoyable party and by the end of the evening i was a hugely embarrassing asshole to the point that i had to call one of my most cared about friends to apologize the day after.

i had my second nasal surgery on the first of the month and the cast came off the following monday. it's still swollen but from what i can tell, it looks great. everyone else who has seen me thinks so too. my friends are so cute, they visited me and brought me lots of goodies while i still had my cast on to keep me company. i didn't work for the first two weeks of august because of all this, but i got to go back on tuesday to look after the cutest most adorable babies on the entire planet. this tuesday may be my last day depending on how soon i get packing and how much other stuff i need to buy. my roommate and i still haven't decided on who is bringing a tv. i think all of us are bringing our own dishes and crap which is okay by me since then i can use whatever i want and know i'm the one using it.... but all of my roommates are out of towners and i am only 40 minutes from home by train so if i bring extra stuff i can always take it home.

other than all of this i haven't really been doing much. just trying to hang out with everyone before we all go to college. one of my best friends is leaving tomorrow morning but it hasn't really set in yet that i am not going to see some of my friends for a long time. other plans for the weekend include purchasing other random things i need to bring to school, seeing superbad at one point or another, going to willa's surprise party for her brother tomorrow night. okay i've been writing this update for three days now so i am going to end it here. in parting, enjoy a video of my dog in a tshirt with chinese writing on it: